Peran Kebersyukuran terhadap Kepuasan Pernikahan Pada Perempuam Muslim yang Bekerja

Anggia Kargenti Evanurul Marettih, Vina Seprina, Hirmaningsih Hirmaningsih, Jhon Herwanto

Abstract


Bertambahnya kesempatan dan peluang kerja bagi perempuan, membuat perempuan dapat memberikan kontribusi nyata  di dunia kerja. Sebagai muslim, bekerja adalah tanggungjawab yang harus dilaksanakan dengan sebaik-baiknya. Dengan bekerja, perempuan dapat membantu perekonomian keluarga sekaligus mengembangkan diri dan karir namun di sisi lain perempuan menghadapi tuntutan terkait pekerjaan dan keluarga yang dapat menggangu kehidupan pernikahannya Kepuasan pernikahan penting dimiliki ibu bekerja. Salah satu faktor yang memengaruhi kepuasan pernikahan adalah kebersyukuran. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mengetahui peran rasa syukur terhadap kepuasan pernikahan perempuan yang bekerja. Sampel berjumlah 384 guru di Kota Pekanbaru yang ditentukan melalui teknik purposive sampling. Instrumen penelitian terdiri dari skala kebersyukuran yang disuusn berdasarkan teori McCullogh, Emmons & Tsang (2002) dan skala kepuasan pernikahan berdasarkan Olson & Fowers (1993). Hasil penelitian menunjukkan koefisien r= 0.378, F= 24.812 dengan nilai p= 0.000 (p<0.01). Dengan demikian hipotesis diterima, artinya keberyukuran memiliki peran yang signifikan terhadap kepuasan pernikahan  pada perempuan yang bekerja. Semakin tinggi rasa syukur yang dimiliki maka akan semakin tinggi kepuasan pernikahan yang dirasakan. Oleh karena itu, mengungkapkan dan mengekspresikan rasa syukur dapat membantu perempuan muslim yang bekerja menjaga dan mempertahankan dan mencapai kepuasan dalam pernikahannya.

Keywords


Kebersyukuran, kepuasan pernikahan, perempuan muslim, bekerja

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